형님

hyeongnim

The respectful, proper way a man refers to an older friend

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Meaning and Usage

"형님" is a respectful and affectionate term used by a man to address an older male friend or someone he respects who is slightly older. It conveys both respect and closeness, often used among peers or in informal settings where hierarchy is acknowledged but warmth is present.

Social Context

This term is common in male friendships, workplaces, or social groups where age and seniority matter. It is less formal than titles like "선배" (senior) but more respectful than just using the person's name.

Common Collocations

  • 형님, 고마워요: expressing gratitude to an older male friend
  • 형님, 부탁해요: asking a favor respectfully
  • 형님, 잘 지내세요?: a polite way to ask how an older male friend is doing

Register and Politeness

"형님" is polite but casual, suitable for informal or semi-formal conversations. It is not used in very formal or official contexts.

Learner Tips

Do not confuse "형님" with "형" which is a simpler, less formal way to say older brother or older male friend. "형님" adds a layer of respect and is often used to show admiration or closeness. Avoid using "형님" with strangers or in formal business settings where titles or full names are preferred.

Example Sentences

형님, 오늘 저녁 같이 먹을래요?

Hyeongnim, oneul jeonyeok gachi meogeullae-yo?

Brother, do you want to have dinner together tonight?

형님 덕분에 일이 잘 해결됐어요.

Hyeongnim deokbune iri jal haegyeoldwaesseoyo.

Thanks to you, brother, the matter was resolved well.

형님, 요즘 어떻게 지내세요?

Hyeongnim, yojeum eotteoke jinaeseyo?

Brother, how have you been lately?